

The night before I was telling them a little bit about being pregnant with twins and how Aria used to kick Siena in the head during the ultrasounds, etc. Then they said the one thing they wanted for their 1/2 birthday was to know who was born first. I've never told them who was older. I didn't intend it that way but as the girls never knew or asked I just never said anything. Then when they started asking I would just change the subject because since Siena is older and is most head strong and a bit dominate, and I didn't want her holding that over Aria's head. And for the last year Aria has thought she was older because she was taller. So I just haven't said.
So I decided that I better tell them. They both insisted they didn't care and if their sister was older it was totally fine. So I explained that you don't choose who comes out first, it's whoever is lowest in my tummy, etc. So I said Siena was the first one that came out of my tummy. With that Aria burst into tears with big crocodile tears rolling down her face. I quickly recovered and told her that do you know what Siena did for those 3 minutes? She cried the entire time because she missed you. And you got to hang out with just mom for a few extra minutes. It was our special time when it was just you in my tummy. She loved that answer, was good with that explanation and they went to bed.
The next morning when they woke up, I wished them happy 1/2 birthday and they said 'Mom, we were awake when we actually turned 6 1/2! Aria sang to me at 6:55 and I sang to Aria at 6:58.' I thought that was the cutest little gesture they did for each other and I'm glad they each got their own celebration from each other.
And let it be known that I looked up their birth announcement and they are only 2 minutes apart and were born at 6:58 and 7:00. Oops. Well at least they were close. Maybe I'll save that for their actual birthday. :)