After my weird reaction to the anesthesia, by late afternoon luckily everything had mostly worn off and I was
semi back to normal. They got me up and let me stand for a few minutes
and so at least I was functioning. After the girls naps, Jennifer
brought the girls over to the hospital. It was so fun to see their reaction
to the baby. I was worried they were going to be freaked out by me in
the hospital bed and have no reaction to Jaron but I was wrong. They
were happy to see me and were very curious about the little baby. They
kept pointing to his nose, his mouth, etc. I had 2 empty bottles that
Jaron had taken and gave one to each of them and those were a total
hit. They were so excited and each left holding theirs.
They
came to the hospital one other time. This time they were a little more
crazy running around the room but were still happy and fine.
Since
being home the girls have been so good with Jaron. They always want to
help me feed him and hold the bottle, sometimes a little roughly but
overall they give him kisses, and pet his hair a lot. The 2nd night I was home they
even asked to hold Jaron and they were so excited to hold him and give
him kisses. They had huge grins on their faces.
Both girls but more Siena then Aria have become obsessed with their dolls. They dress them, feed them, burp them. I got out a couple preemie outfits that were given to us and Jaron doesn't fit and they carry these around all day long putting them on, asking me to button them up only to immediately unbutton and undress them and repeat, over and over. It's really cute actually. One time Aria asked if Jaron could come play in their doll house. I obliged for about 60 seconds but it was sure cute.
The
hardest part to this adjustment for them so far is that I couldn't lift
them or carry them for 2 weeks. The first day was so hard I couldn't even leave the
room without them going hysterical. I had been gone for 4 days so I
get that. But they also don't understand when they ask me to pick them
up why I can't. I sit on the couch and tell them to climb up but it
took them a couple days to figure that out. Now for the most part they
are ok and now that I can cuddle them if they climb up on the couch but
that first day home was so hard for them and for me emotionally. It's nice now that the 2 weeks is up and I'm pretty much back to normal.
Shane has been great doing all the lifting and helping me when they get
to much for me.
Shane's mom has also been staying with
us and stayed the whole time I was in the hospital. She has been
amazing and has done so much for us these last 2 weeks in taking charge
of the girls, their schedule and I never had to worry about one thing
regarding the girls while I was in the hospital. My parents also came
and got the girls a couple times and it was fun for them to get out of house and a nice
relaxing day for me as well to take a nap and just focus on Jaron.
2 comments:
Loving all the pictures. Jaron is an absolute lovey. He is so sweet. I want to hold him all day for you. Dreaming of that. He is dreamy.
Love that they're playing with their dolls more because of Jaron! Cute! And I didn't realize they (or Aria?) asked that you put Jaron in the doll house! I thought you were just being funny and put him in!
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