Tuesday, April 1, 2008

FAQ's by Sheri

I thought I would answer some questions that I have gotten from several people about my treatment and side effects, etc. I don't mind talking about any of it so if you have more questions, just let me know.


What is your chemo treatment like when you go to the clinic?

Every other Monday is my chemo day. I go to the clinic they take my weight, blood pressure, and temperature. Then they access my port (poking a needle into my port which is just to the side of my armpit) and they draw some blood. I then go meet with the doctor to ask any and all questions I have and for him to make sure my blood count is high enough to have treatment and make sure I am still doing ok. My doctor is so nice and will sit there and let me ask question after question until I can't think of any. Finally when I run out of questions, I go back to the 'treatment room' and they start up the IV. I get a bag of anti-nausea medication, then 4 different chemo's. This whole process from when I walk in the door to when I walk out takes just over 3 hours. The 'treatment room' is just like it sounds, a big room where everyone gets their chemo. They have about 15 recliners set up and a big nurses station and you pick a recliner and they hook you up. It's a big chemo party. Some people sleep, some bring portable DVD players and some have people there with them to sit and talk to. That is what I have usually done, brought someone with me to provide entertainment, it helps pass the time and it's fun to have someone there to support you. Some people are there all day and others are in and out. I found most people that are there when I get there, are still there when I leave, sad. By the time I get home I have about an hour before I start feeling sick. Although that time seems to be getting shorter at each treatment.


What side effects do you get and how bad are they?

It's easiest to just write out my schedule since after 3 treatments, my side effects have started and stopped at almost the exact same time. At least I know what to expect now! Although the day of chemo now seems less and less desirable because I know what's coming!

Monday - By the night of my treatment, I am feeling nauseous. I don't feel hungry one bit but I have learned that if I eat a little bit it helps me feel better. So I do a lot of snacking the rest of the day. I have anti-nausea medication but have only had to take it once. The nausea seems pretty manageable, nothing great but could be a lot worse! Last treatment I didn't sleep Monday night (which they say is normal) so for the next treatment I will be taking an anti-nausea pill which will make me drowsy and help me sleep.


Tuesday – I still feel nauseous throughout the entire day and continue to snack and eat little meals. Tuesday morning I get my Neulasta shot which helps my white blood cell count stay high enough to continue treatment. The side effect of this shot is achiness. So by Tuesday night I feel VERY achy, like every bone in my body hurts to touch. Top that achiness and nausea with being really tired and it's not a fun Tuesday night for me.


Wednesday – Still pretty tired, the nausea is gone today...yeah. The achiness is gone, but I still feel really stiff and sore from the Neulasta. By Wednesday night I think I might survive and then the mouth sores hit. The mouth sores have decreased in severity with each treatment and the doctor thinks that my body might just adjust to it and I won't get mouth sores every single time. This would be the one side effect I would LOVE to get rid of.


Thursday – Mouth sores are still there but the achiness/soreness from Neulasta is mostly gone.


Saturday – The mouth sores are mostly better


Sunday – My lower back starts to ache. The doctor says this is from my bone marrow re-building. This lasts until Tuesday-ish. The rest of that week I am feeling pretty good and just have to stay healthy. My fatigue seems to come and go throughout the 2 weeks and I just have to watch myself that I don't overdo it and get rest. Sometimes I don't realize it until it's too late and I am so tired I can barely function. It's all a learning process still.


How is your hair? and...when do we get to see your cute wig?

Most of you know that I have REALLY thick hair. So thick in fact that when I used to get it cut, my hair dresser thins it for me (my favorite part of getting it cut!) So when I started losing my hair, although traumatic, wasn't too bad because I had a lot to lose. It slowed down for a little bit and has recently started falling out more. I still have my hair but the time will come in the near future when I will have to shave it. For now, I have enjoyed knowing what it feels like to have naturally thin hair.


When my hair comes out, although I am trying to prepare myself, it will still be a very hard day. I have a cute wig and lots of bandanas and we'll just have to wait and see how often I wear what. I don't picture myself wearing my wig everyday but will be nice to have from time to time. Don't worry, I'll have Brigitte post some pictures when it happens, so you can all be part of it!


Sorry for the long post, but there you have an update on life with Chemo.


Any other questions you've been wondering about?

11 comments:

Speedys said...

Sheri you are the best, you just take things so good and how you talk about it is so matter of fact, I love it. If and when you loose your hair maybe your cute hubby can sport the same balding do as you to support you. You know Todd will be there for you. If you need help with a Bic give him a call. JK your not going to loose all your hair, you have tons.
Love ya,
Lisa

Nikki said...

Sheri...thanks for your comment on the blog..you are right, this NOT KNOWING is killing me. I am trying so hard to be patient and faithful. We hope to have the CT scan info and the biopsy back on Thursday when we meet with the Urologist again! Thanks for you support. I did have quite a hard time digesting this post however! It seems like a very tough journey! You are very strong and a great example for us and we undergo this trial as well! Thanks

Julie said...

Sheri, you are so brave..that sounds terrible and miserable! I don't know how you do it.I hope it gets better and thank you so much for sharing all that you have! you are a great example!

Kari Howell said...

You are so awesome! What a great update and wealth of knowledge for all of us curious minds that must know. When are your treatments over? I am shocked about how great your hair looks, and am still wondering if you really will ever have to shave it. Anyway, this was a great post- thanks!

Anonymous said...

Sheri! You are adorable. You have such a matter of fact, positive attitude about this! We sure love you tons!

Christy said...

That is a good post. Well not good, but I like the information. I guess it's good it is predictable but what a nightmare! I can't wait to get this year over with and maybe there will be no more cancer in this family. I don't want to jinx us though! The day has finally come when you are so happy to have such thick hair...yeah!!

Denise said...

Sheri, thanks for all the info. We've been thinking about you and it sounds like you are hanging in there pretty well.

Michelle said...

Sheri, I learned so much from this post- I thought I knew a lot of what your treatment and side effects were. But there was so much you posted that I didn't know about. I'm glad you have meals coming in on Tuesday's. I want to bring you another meal some time soon.

Anonymous said...

Hi Sheri, I think I left a comment once before. If I did and you decided not to reply -- I am sorry and I promise I won't bug you any more after this.

I am writing an article for Modern Bride magazine about engaged couples facing serious illness. I have talked to a lot of couples who dealt with cancer together. Most of them waited until after their treatment to go forward with their weddings. I would love to be able to share the story of someone who opted to go ahead and have their wedding.

If you would be willing to talk to me please contact me by email. We could do a brief interview by phone or email. The magazine is also starting a web-based support group for people in this situation so you'd be helping to contribute to that effort.

Thanks again and I wish you the best with your treatment.

Catherine Holecko
cholecko @ yahoo.com

Tueller Family said...

Wow, Sheri, you could be famous!!

I love your new background. Very springy! I have been thinking about you lately, and how things are going well. I am sure you are enjoying married life.

Hope you are having a great day.

Mad Queen said...

Wow Sheri, I had not idea how difficult chemo is. Sounds like you know what to expect each time and that has its good parts and bad parts. I mean, mouth sores...??? who knew that? I had never heard of that. All of the details make it sound like I am watching the 10 commandments and your body is going through the different plagues....ha! You are amazing. You are a trooper. I pray for time to pass quickly and for your body to respond well to the chemo to get rid of all traces of cancer... so that you can get back to the bliss of being a healthy newlywed. You deserve it.

love,
Tracey